Post by beckyaa12345 on Jun 12, 2024 19:58:25 GMT
Hi,
living with my ex boyfriend who is a fearful avoidant he deactivated last Monday and stayed at his moms house. and said even though he loves me and is in love with me and wants to be with me he cant see a future and wants to work on himself and is now asking me and my kid to move out in the near future. which we can't due to income reasons. The economy is nuts. even though i make good money. I am heartbroken i am so in love with him. I have never been heartbroken before. all of my relationships took their course and this one was like a rug ripped out from underneath me
we took the weekend for space. and he's supposed to come home tonight or tomorrow. He found out I am just going to move on and start dating. I have been keeping myself busy with social outings and hanging with friends. they are my support right now.
After a week away from each other - we spoke Tuesday. it was a great conversation. it was light but heart felt. checked on each other and he said he misses me and this is hurting him but he's been thinking about everything and really processing what's wrong with him. He asked if my schedule is open for a dinner Thursday and i told him i would check. I eventually got back to him to say yes. and i asked what his intentions of this not a date was and he said "well talking earlier today i thought it would just be a good conversations because us talking in the house when i come home and we can catch up some where's else."
im so confused, heartbroken, lost, scared and mentally ... i am just ugh...
Edit: he was picking out engagement rings with my sister in Nov.
living with my ex boyfriend who is a fearful avoidant he deactivated last Monday and stayed at his moms house. and said even though he loves me and is in love with me and wants to be with me he cant see a future and wants to work on himself and is now asking me and my kid to move out in the near future. which we can't due to income reasons. The economy is nuts. even though i make good money. I am heartbroken i am so in love with him. I have never been heartbroken before. all of my relationships took their course and this one was like a rug ripped out from underneath me
we took the weekend for space. and he's supposed to come home tonight or tomorrow. He found out I am just going to move on and start dating. I have been keeping myself busy with social outings and hanging with friends. they are my support right now.
After a week away from each other - we spoke Tuesday. it was a great conversation. it was light but heart felt. checked on each other and he said he misses me and this is hurting him but he's been thinking about everything and really processing what's wrong with him. He asked if my schedule is open for a dinner Thursday and i told him i would check. I eventually got back to him to say yes. and i asked what his intentions of this not a date was and he said "well talking earlier today i thought it would just be a good conversations because us talking in the house when i come home and we can catch up some where's else."
im so confused, heartbroken, lost, scared and mentally ... i am just ugh...
Edit: he was picking out engagement rings with my sister in Nov.