Post by damascena on Dec 25, 2017 18:18:23 GMT
While wasted on marijuana a few weeks ago my FA boyfriend told me he’s decided to stop having sex with me because he thinks we’re getting too attached to one another.
What followed was an argument, lots of tears from both of us. Since then he's given up marijuana and started therapy. He's acting like the things he said while high were never said. Far from avoiding sex, he's become much more intimate, super keen to spend the entire night with his arms wrapped tightly around me etc. No longer using his hectic work schedule as a way of avoiding spending quality time together. He's also been much more vulnerable and is talking quite openly about his insecurities and stuff. I can see that it is hard for him but he's very clearly trying hard.
My boyfriend has always been the one who initiates sex and continues to do so.
So, I don’t understand his comments about withholding sex? What was that about? He LOVES sex, lol
What followed was an argument, lots of tears from both of us. Since then he's given up marijuana and started therapy. He's acting like the things he said while high were never said. Far from avoiding sex, he's become much more intimate, super keen to spend the entire night with his arms wrapped tightly around me etc. No longer using his hectic work schedule as a way of avoiding spending quality time together. He's also been much more vulnerable and is talking quite openly about his insecurities and stuff. I can see that it is hard for him but he's very clearly trying hard.
My boyfriend has always been the one who initiates sex and continues to do so.
So, I don’t understand his comments about withholding sex? What was that about? He LOVES sex, lol
