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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 0:03:08 GMT
I have decided it would be healthier for me personally to move on to an environment that is more therapeutically appropriate for me, without the barrage of toxicity and ignorance that pervades this forum.
I get that it is a helpful resource for many but isn’t what I need at this stage of my journey.
Even the brief interactions and sharing and receiving from you fellow DA’s and some other self aware individuals has been a real blessing to me. It was so incredible to share our similar views and experiences. Really made me smile and it’s very encouraging to me. I have lived in an isolated state for most of my life but the last few years have brought me to such a beautiful place. So, you guys are actually a part of that and tho it seems small these kinds of things mean a lot to me and make my heart even larger.
I will read this forum with you DA’s from the outside, and refrain from even glancing at the others haha. Lessons learned. Blessings to each of you! ❤️❤️❤️
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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 19:45:03 GMT
wait as a public service to DA’s lurking i would like to a offer an alternative reality to the general victim mentality.
There are lots of healthy recovering people but the board from the outside is biased so against DA it offers little hope for healing and a lot of potential for despair.
That’s not right. It’s perpetuating the lie.
There is hope and healing for DA’s and they aren’t horrible the way this board tries to reinforce.
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Post by scheme00 on Jan 6, 2018 20:09:25 GMT
This board does not think they are horrible. It can be horrible for us emotionally when we get into a relationship and learn we are with a partner that is not the same as us. I myself have tremendous love for my ex DA and have so much empathy towards her and hope she can become more secure to let people in. Internally I want to let go of her because I've gone through so much pain but there is true love for her and realize she is that way for the same reason why I am a little bit of an AP. You must understand that some of the people who act like DAs are horrible people is just because they have so much pain from the relationship that didn't work out with their partner. A little empathy for them would be great too.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 20:46:59 GMT
Sigh....I thought we could get our own safe space on this forum but doesn't look like it will be. I'm about done here too.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 20:53:33 GMT
yeah i am not sharing my personal journey here anymore. but i am just “venting” now.
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