Post by damascena on Jan 16, 2018 14:15:22 GMT
My DA constantly used his Phantom Ex as a way to distance himself from real love. He talked about their relationship as if it was perfect and magical and as if she was the most beautiful, amazing human being who ever walked the earth.
I ended up speaking to her recently. She had a very different story to tell. Her first comment to me was "RUN! He is an abusive narcissist."
She says he was cruel and unstable and that he disrespected her by CONSTANTLY talking about his previous ex and putting that ex on a pedestal. He proposed to her after only 3 months (this seems odd for a DA, no?) and she says she reluctantly agreed but felt it was too rushed. In the end she dumped him due to his emotional unavailability. She claims he physically attacked her after she dumped him, and that he is stalking her to this day.
I ended up speaking to her recently. She had a very different story to tell. Her first comment to me was "RUN! He is an abusive narcissist."
She says he was cruel and unstable and that he disrespected her by CONSTANTLY talking about his previous ex and putting that ex on a pedestal. He proposed to her after only 3 months (this seems odd for a DA, no?) and she says she reluctantly agreed but felt it was too rushed. In the end she dumped him due to his emotional unavailability. She claims he physically attacked her after she dumped him, and that he is stalking her to this day.
