Can't seem to keep my mouth shut | Jeb Kinnison Attachment Type Forum

Lola
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Can't seem to keep my mouth shut Feb 10, 2018 12:44:31 GMT guest likes this

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Post by Lola on Feb 10, 2018 12:44:31 GMT

Do any of you by any chance have the same issue: you just can't stop talking, you reveal more about yourself that you would have liked to, you cannot keep a commitment to yourself about reacting a certain way when a situation arrises?

I wonder whether it is a part of being an AP?

I think this puts me in a much lower position and permits others to be judgemental (because you gave them so much to judge you for jesus) and walk all over me.

alpenglow
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Can't seem to keep my mouth shut Feb 10, 2018 15:21:30 GMT guest likes this

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Post by alpenglow on Feb 10, 2018 15:21:30 GMT

Oh yes, I do experience the same thing. I reveal too much about myself, like flaws or other possibly negatively perceived things, as a way to prevent others from finding out first.
Is this what you mean? Do you have some examples in mind?

Lola
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Can't seem to keep my mouth shut Feb 13, 2018 9:25:06 GMT via mobile

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Post by Lola on Feb 13, 2018 9:25:06 GMT

Feb 10, 2018 15:21:30 GMT alpenglow said:

Oh yes, I do experience the same thing. I reveal too much about myself, like flaws or other possibly negatively perceived things, as a way to prevent others from finding out first.
Is this what you mean? Do you have some examples in mind?

No. I mean like I constantly tell myself “today I won’t make a fool out of myself by revealing too much” and then I do. I think it comes from getting ostracised when I was young in school for many years. Maybe it’s attention seeking..