He said that he was afraid of committing and he felt inadequate. I'm such a frikin push over for him. I've let him back quite easily every time. Because I wasn't really moving on when he would leave. I was just missing him the whole time so I was always happy to have him back. But now I am really feeling that I won't let this continue. If he can't commit then he can't come back.
Try to stay away if you can. I think it will save you a lot of grief but no one can blame you of you don't. I think we've all been there. You can mention FA to him if he contacts you and see how he responds but don't count on him instantly wanting to put real effort in changing.
He was like this before he met you and it's deeply engrained in him to act this way.
I’m one of those people who feels bad for people too. I try and help them.
I’m feeling I’ll let him back once.
Do you actually believe his excuses for leaving??
I’d be very hesitant to let someone back after 3 months. He would have to come back soon.
I’m feeling stronger every day.
Sending the message outlining how I felt really helped me.
Every time I go down town I drive past him in his car,which is annoying, because it makes me think of him.
What did you do while he was gone??
I’ve planned trips away with friends. So that’s helped keep my mind off thing.
I’m two weeks of no contact on his side of things. Did you get messages at all from in??
Like you we had a perfect relationship until I ended things and he put his guard up. I wish I’d never ended it!! But I could tell he was different.
I’ve never been with a FA before. It’s definitely interesting!!!
How are you at the moment!!
