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Post by devastated on Feb 22, 2018 7:33:41 GMT
Hi just a few questions for a FA.
Do you like partners chasing you after you leave?
Do you have good relationships with friends?
How long can anxieties last? How do you deal with the anxiety if you have to go to work ect?
Do you believe people don’t like you in general.
Sorry for so many questions. I’m new to FA. And very inquisitive.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2018 17:44:32 GMT
are you aware of other attachment styles other than FA? have you looked into Anxious Preoccupied? Or Secure? the forum is most helpful for those looking into their own attachment styles rather than that of their ex partners, although there are some FA's here that might contribute their perspective on this question. I think they've been super busy lately working on their own internal dynamics to heal their own attachment issues. we've had some tremendous support for each other going on! Do you know your attachment style devastated? |
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Post by yasmin on Feb 23, 2018 18:10:02 GMT
I could answer these questions but FAS react very differently. Think of it more simply as "we simultaneously crave affection and intimacy but fear it too"
So we are confusing even to ourselves.
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Post by mrob on Feb 23, 2018 23:32:02 GMT
]So we are confusing even to ourselves. So true. Acquaintances, I do ok. I’ve learned to engage in small talk and can look confident. Friendships not so well. I have trouble maintaining them, going for months at a time without speaking. Some are really good quality friendships, but if they require constant work, I find it really draining. |
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