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Post by bedlam71 on Mar 30, 2018 22:30:45 GMT
So every single one of my exes girlfriends cheated on her except me. It seems she gets involved with emotionally unavailable people, unconsciously I assume. I was wondering what types of people the avoidants on here got involved with.
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Post by bedlam71 on Mar 30, 2018 23:07:58 GMT
I know I was not really emotionally available when I met my ex but I didn't commit until about 5 months later. It seems her exes were getting out of relationships when she met them. Some were using drugs and she was clueless about it.
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Post by tnr9 on Mar 30, 2018 23:20:24 GMT
I definately recognize the "I won't put any effort in until I know she is into me" stance. I have always considered it more of a "I don't want to be rejected" versus a "I want to put the minimum amount in"...but looking back...I can see a bit of a pattern of the relationship being a convenience. I don't really know much about his ex gfs.
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