Post by apersonwhosaysthings on Oct 3, 2016 19:57:25 GMT
I'm 27m, she's 26f. We've been dating for about 8 months.
She's also great. We've traveled together, met each others parents. She celebrates my positives and never minds my negatives. I tend to get anxious at times and she is great with it. I can't ask for more.
However, I don't ever have the urge to have sex with her really. Or to show much affection. We recently went on a trip, had a great time. Now that I'm back in real life... I feel almost nothing for her.
I'm so confused, and want to break up with her to avoid stringing her along, but I feel like this is a good thing and something that I should hold on to.
I've just learned about the attachment theory, and after reading a bit about it, I can relate.
Parents split when I was 2.. didnt't have a great relationship with my dad until I was older, now I have no relationship with my mother. Tons of anxiety throughout my life.
I'm thinking of telling my girlfriend how I feel tonight, but not sure if I should end it or not...
She's also great. We've traveled together, met each others parents. She celebrates my positives and never minds my negatives. I tend to get anxious at times and she is great with it. I can't ask for more.
However, I don't ever have the urge to have sex with her really. Or to show much affection. We recently went on a trip, had a great time. Now that I'm back in real life... I feel almost nothing for her.
I'm so confused, and want to break up with her to avoid stringing her along, but I feel like this is a good thing and something that I should hold on to.
I've just learned about the attachment theory, and after reading a bit about it, I can relate.
Parents split when I was 2.. didnt't have a great relationship with my dad until I was older, now I have no relationship with my mother. Tons of anxiety throughout my life.
I'm thinking of telling my girlfriend how I feel tonight, but not sure if I should end it or not...