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Post by tnr9 on Apr 16, 2018 16:50:05 GMT
i agree with this. maybe, scheme00, you are trapped in a rejection mindset and too panicked about the fear of it to be patient and let things grow organically. i can understand that, if that's the case. But getting balance and perspective with that is the only way to proceed if that's what you want to do. I am absolutely trapped in a rejection mindset. I think guys are terrified of the dreaded “friend zone.” Wanting a woman that doesn’t see you in a romantic way. That’s what triggered me. Here I was thinking that we could possibly work things out and then I get rejected and took it personal thinking she does not see me that way anymore. I can not handle that. I don't see what happened as her rejecting you...that is a limiting belief. You actually had a really nice time together...she just did not want to take it to "that" (physical intimacy) level yet. If she was rejecting you...I don't think she would have held your hand in the car. That is someone who obviously cares about you..whether it stays at friendship or progresses to romantic. Let things progress organically and who knows. |
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Post by goldilocks on Apr 16, 2018 17:24:23 GMT
The fear of the friendzone is going to come accross as pressure and will in turn make a DA woman not feel relaxed enough to fall in love.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 16, 2018 18:47:56 GMT
The fear of the friendzone is going to come accross as pressure and will in turn make a DA woman not feel relaxed enough to fall in love. this! |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2018 1:22:12 GMT
I think that people that have been together in the past and reconnect, there is sometimes this thought that you can just jump back in where you left off last. For some, it doesn't work that way. It can be a "starting all over" again process. She may not know what she wants at this point and is just trying to figure it out. Pretend that you just met her and go from there.
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