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Post by fara on Apr 21, 2018 1:32:38 GMT
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Post by fara on Apr 21, 2018 1:36:44 GMT
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Post by scheme00 on Apr 21, 2018 3:23:21 GMT
You most likely are in the extreme end of AP. This is not about an Avoidant in my point of view. You never even truested this guy. Went through this phone. He hadn’t done anything while he was with you. Still that was not enough to keep your mind saying what about this then and that. You are SEARCHING for problems. It’s hard to turn off the monkey mind but I hope you are able to find a way to keep your preoccupied mind playing reruns of him so you can understand things. You are stuck right now and are grasping at straws it seems. I believe you may be severely over analyzing things in your head. How do I know? Because that’s what I do!  |
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Post by fara on Apr 21, 2018 5:40:41 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Apr 21, 2018 7:19:10 GMT
There's absolutely nothing (from what you wrote) that would suggest he was still pinning after his ex when he was with you. Nothing.
What if they stayed friends and keep regular contact? A lot of people do that when they end on a good note.
It seems like you've started to compared yourself with her and she was 'better' than you in your own mind so you probably started questioning and overthink... if so, it was searching for problems that weren't there, as scheme said.
Moreover, it ended between you two, right? There's no reason for you to think about it, it prevents you from moving on. And given your history, I hope you're not trying to convince yourself that he left you for her.
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