Post by leavethelighton on Apr 29, 2018 0:14:32 GMT
FA-behavior is the attachment style I know the least about, but it sounds like a power play, or maybe an (inappropriate) attempt at reaching out.
In any case, I agree with others that the "Why" isn't as important as your figuring out the best way to set a boundary. You told him it was over, don't get pulled back in. Feel your anger and then move through it back to be state of being done with him.
I think it would make more sense to block his number than to wink back, because the wink is still engaging with him and it sounds like you do not want to engage with him.
In any case, I agree with others that the "Why" isn't as important as your figuring out the best way to set a boundary. You told him it was over, don't get pulled back in. Feel your anger and then move through it back to be state of being done with him.
I think it would make more sense to block his number than to wink back, because the wink is still engaging with him and it sounds like you do not want to engage with him.