Post by Deleted on Apr 30, 2018 14:25:36 GMT
I got a facebook message on Saturday: "Jordan Peterson Rule 11 (crying laugh face)"
I quite like JP's Jungian videos on Youtube, and my ex knows I like him - and bought the book to get into him too, since we like a lot of the same kind of books. Most of our conversations were about books we like, or things we love, and we bounced off each other so well in that way. We broke up because he didn't seem to know what to do with me, or so that's how it seemed, and said that he essentially respected me as a friend. I told him I won't be friends with him.
Last time we talked, I kept it brief and he told me to call him sometime, and I was like yeah I'll keep that in mind, and then he sent me another message that I never opened making conversation. This was nearly a month ago, and now he's back from travelling around Europe, conveniently I get this new message about JP.
I can't tell if he misses me or is just wanting to know if he still "has me"... it's upsetting my attachment stuff because I keep thinking about messaging back, but what good would that do?
What do these indirect messages even MEAN?
I quite like JP's Jungian videos on Youtube, and my ex knows I like him - and bought the book to get into him too, since we like a lot of the same kind of books. Most of our conversations were about books we like, or things we love, and we bounced off each other so well in that way. We broke up because he didn't seem to know what to do with me, or so that's how it seemed, and said that he essentially respected me as a friend. I told him I won't be friends with him.
Last time we talked, I kept it brief and he told me to call him sometime, and I was like yeah I'll keep that in mind, and then he sent me another message that I never opened making conversation. This was nearly a month ago, and now he's back from travelling around Europe, conveniently I get this new message about JP.
I can't tell if he misses me or is just wanting to know if he still "has me"... it's upsetting my attachment stuff because I keep thinking about messaging back, but what good would that do?
What do these indirect messages even MEAN?
