|
|
Post by bedlam71 on May 3, 2018 1:02:47 GMT
What is the purpose when avoidants are secretive? So like my ex didn't want me to see when she was on Facebook and she kept her status as single giving some lame excuse about not wanting people to know her business. How does a partner not take that personally?
|
|
|
|
Post by bedlam71 on May 3, 2018 1:43:12 GMT
Thank you. My ex has told me I am the first person she has felt some level of safety disclosing things to me. Sadly, she doesn't want to deal with emotions so won't seek help. I understand that it's painful to experience emotions that she has been trying to not feel and it's actually causing her more suffering.
|
|
|
|
Post by yasmin on May 3, 2018 21:21:20 GMT
I've always kept my status as single. I don't like inviting people into my business. It's definitely nothing personal
|
|
|
|
Post by bedlam71 on May 4, 2018 0:48:25 GMT
Thanks Yasmin!
|
|
Deleted
Deleted Member
Posts: 0
|
Post by Deleted on May 5, 2018 23:53:50 GMT
I think it's a personal preference. I didn't grow up with social media, so I don't see the importance of fb or things like that. I don't need or want to make my vacations,my kids etc public . My ex is AP and he is also a private person.
|
|
