Post by Deleted on May 20, 2018 13:58:22 GMT
Hi guys
In relation to my previous thread 'Dating An Unavailable Guy. Here is my update.
So last week. I asked the unavailable guy to move in with me. I already knew the answer before sending the question via text.
I thought asking via text would be less painful if I asked him in person. I know if it had been in person. The rejection would have been painful.
So I texted him and switched off my phone. He went berserk. Adamant he doesn't want to move in. Upset that I had asked him this. I guess it's pressure he doesn't want.
Five days later, we saw each other in work as we do now casually see each other from time to time.
He informed he will make more effort to iniate contact and plans. Seems me asking him to move in scared and prompted him to make a change.
Strangely after work. I finally woke up. I finally realised the true extent of this relationship.
Two weeks ago. I told him how I felt about wanting him to make more effort. Despite promises that he will. He never did.
But the moment I start asking serious questions. He gets scared and is willing to step up.
I texted him after and told him im moving on and walking away for good. He never replied back.
I never wanted him to move in. I thought I'd test to see if he would make more effort or fight for us.
It's just a shame it took one year on for me to finally realise my self worth and realise I've wasted too much time on the wrong person.
I guess love really is blind.
In relation to my previous thread 'Dating An Unavailable Guy. Here is my update.
So last week. I asked the unavailable guy to move in with me. I already knew the answer before sending the question via text.
I thought asking via text would be less painful if I asked him in person. I know if it had been in person. The rejection would have been painful.
So I texted him and switched off my phone. He went berserk. Adamant he doesn't want to move in. Upset that I had asked him this. I guess it's pressure he doesn't want.
Five days later, we saw each other in work as we do now casually see each other from time to time.
He informed he will make more effort to iniate contact and plans. Seems me asking him to move in scared and prompted him to make a change.
Strangely after work. I finally woke up. I finally realised the true extent of this relationship.
Two weeks ago. I told him how I felt about wanting him to make more effort. Despite promises that he will. He never did.
But the moment I start asking serious questions. He gets scared and is willing to step up.
I texted him after and told him im moving on and walking away for good. He never replied back.
I never wanted him to move in. I thought I'd test to see if he would make more effort or fight for us.
It's just a shame it took one year on for me to finally realise my self worth and realise I've wasted too much time on the wrong person.
I guess love really is blind.
