feeling ashamed and disgusted after getting close

Hmm, but interestingly I did the jeb test just for shits and giggles and got dismissive...it was almost right at the little origin. I've never gotten dismissive before (nor do I really think I am one). I did feel as if though my answers were different from last time (last time I took the test while I was interested in someone else, and sort of always combine my past behaviors / thoughts up until that point). Idk...I'm fickle.

Did you remember to ask him, why he thinks, that he has asperger? And if you do not know/or if you know, you can ask him, what he thinks asperger is. (I have learned to always ask more about the things people tell you). 

Some adults finds out about their own asperger traits, because today their children gets diagnosed.

P.S. I have some friends with aspergers (highly funtioning and well educated), very loyal and endeering - sometimes almost childlike. I have tried to date one of them - he dident tell me he had aspergers and I dident know about what it was. I remember at the beginning of the "getting to know each other face" sitting at his couch talking and drinking tea one night, and all of a sudden my body wanted to turn around and flee. There was something off, and my body could feel it. It happend in a split second. We were both surprised and I couldent understand it at first. After a while, I had to stop our "relationsship". My nerveus system freaked out. (thank you reptile brain!)
They can use a lot of energy acting like NT´s all day at work ect., but when they come home all that repressed stress has to go somewhere. They are not bad people, they are just wired different. Endeering people, and if they can tolerate touch, they can be the best "huggers".