Avoidants: Are you a caretaker?

I certainly meant $18k. epicgum, this is what I meant. I got to a stage where I thought I didn’t matter. I was just a bloke, a pain in the posterior. She wanted a partnership, but all I did was get in the way of what she wanted to do, but I couldn’t say no. I was totally ineffectual.

Truth is, I was so triggered, for so long, and pushed it down for so long that I was incapable of anything.