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Post by anne12 on Apr 21, 2019 8:06:42 GMT
Some of these exercises, such as the Love Vision and Meet Your Future Partner may sound like only for singles. If you already have a partner, then you can make the Love Vision together with your partner - after you have made your own and know what it is that you basically dream about. Meeting your dream partner is also relevant if you are in a relationship. There you have to see your partner clearly - if you and your partner are sure that you will be together for the next 7 years. Use the exercise to cultivate the mood and feelings that you dream of are between the two of you! Make a vision that will make you (almost) experience, the relationship that you dream of RIGHT NOW. This vision can contribute significantly to attracting a lover, the only one in your life! It will open you to love so you can be in the right place at the right time and do what it takes. Immediately drop the list of how your partner should be! Even if you get a partner with exactly the traits and qualities that are on your list, there will always be something that you have not thought of. Because at the conscious level you can't get all the facets. How to make your love vision: Describe your vision as concrete and vivid as possible. Describe the vision so that you feel it, feel your enthusiasm and joy over the things that are in it Describe it in present and positive formulations. What you want to get. Or already have and would like to keep on having Describe the feelings, sensations, moods and experiences that you would like to have in love life, these are the ones that open you to love and get it attracted! There are several love visions: 1) The love for yourself: How do you treat yourself, how do you show yourself love, what do you do to feel safe in your everyday life, do you fail yourself? Make loving steps towards yourself, take a small step every day. Make a self-love diary. Write 3-5 points each night about what you might have thought, said, done to pamper yourself. Read your vision from time to time. jebkinnisonforum.com/thread/1051/love-tips 2) Dating process vision. How does dating feels for you? Many are uncertain during this period. Write what moods, sensations, feelings that are in you. Recall these feelings when you date. "I feel comfortable in myself, we communicate daily, we see eachother a couple times a week. When I am with my date we are both interested in making it comfortable for each other, I feel calm in the body, I am curious and open." 3) Long term lovevision: Livingsituation, kids, Work, families, friends ect. Merge your values into the vision Describe what and how it is in your relationship Your way of being together Communication Activities and your sex life Alone time Other relationships - family, friends, children Economy Housing -form-seperate, together, apartment, house, in the city, country 🏠 ect Possibly cohabitation Free time, travel,e vacations ect. Other things Read your vision at least every day - especially you need to focus on the emotions and moods. There may be a need - very easy even. Allow it to be there too. How does a typical lovevision look like: Love vision: The secure: harmonious, passionate, warm, cordial, loving, spacious, balanced. The ambivalent: long, romantic, "we do / we feel / you are / you do". There can be a lot of passion. The dismossive: Short, objective descriptions, without dicribtions of many moods, sensations and feelings, because the dismissive have closed of from their body. The disorganized: Messy, with contradictory things, confusing to read. Love vision: If you've got some ambivalent attatchmentstyle IT is important to put elements in the vision that gives a calm nerveussystem. That IT is clear, that you are together with the right person. When visualising the dating phase, that you are calm inside and that you are able to live your daily life ect. and that you are able to stay calm even if your future partner texts with 2 Days in between. If you have some desorganised attatchmentstyle that things between you evolves in a calm and slow way with no drama, that boundaries are respected, that you and your partner feels egual ect If you've got some dismissive attatchmentstyle it is important to describe your lovevision with your feelings, needs ect. You can ask some of your friends to get inspired. You can make a collage with pictures from magasines of things and experiences you want in your relationship. jebkinnisonforum.com/post/25040/Love activity: Create your relationship now! Turn off your phone ect. for ½ hour, where you are undisturbed for this activity Find a paper and a pen - or your PC Sit back and breathe deeply 3 times. Breathe slowly out every time! Imagine that you have now met and are with the only one in your life. That you have the relationship exactly as you long to have (also allow any need / grief over he / she is not there yet) Write down: How would your life be different from what it is right now? What would it give you to have this relationship? What feelings / mood? What else in your life right now, could give you that mood? If it is security, what could give you an experience of security right now? If it is cohesion, what could give you an experience of cohesion? If it is adventure, joy, sexual gratification, having a partner, doing things with, relief, lightness, meaningfulness, feeling good enough, hoping for children, etc. - what could just give you a similar feeling even though it may be a weaker feeling? Start today doing the things that can give you the feelings and moods! Keep doing the things the next few days and weeks - and notice the mood it gives you Negative emotions and discomfort may appear. These are typically signs of lack. Stay with this as best you can or wait to do this activity until you are more in balance. It can also be other old things that pops up. It is a good idea to clean up in these things, if you want to attract the partner You want. It is not, that you have to be completely whole and perfect - it happens to very few - but that you reconcile yourself to those things and land them. Acceptance is the first step. Accept the moods and feelings that are now. Sometimes, especially if you have shock trauma energy in stock, then it may require more landing than acceptance With this activity you build your skills up to attract your future partner. If you want to have a partner, who wants to spend a Lot of time with you, show yourself that you are Worth spending time with. Spend. quality time with yourself 30 min a Day. |
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Post by anne12 on Apr 21, 2019 9:06:01 GMT
The feminine/masculine: As a woman: Rest in youself Radiate with your feminine energy Let him take the initiative / control Receive his gifts Be receptive and happy As a man: Rest in youself Radiate with your masculine energy Take control without overturning her Show her that she can trust you Rest in yourself / Radiate with your energy (both sexes): Be the one you are - if you try to be different from the one you are - then you are working in the wrong way! Be yourself. Then you seem more appealing to others! Get the good things in your life - use the power of what you influence. Be sure to do the things that makes you happy! Accept what you can't change - and release it. It releases both energy and mood when you stop fighting the things that you can't do anything about anyway. If you are a man, find your masculine sides - if you are a woman then find your feminine sides. ENCOURAGE them and keep them! Find some people of your own sex who you really think is a man or a woman in a good and delicious way. Look him / her over the shoulder: What makes him masculine - her feminine? You may sadness and regret: Feel how it is for you to do, be or look like this. You can make a vision board by the men/women you feel inspired by. As a woman: Let him take the initiative / control: Unless you love a partner who doesn't take initiatives - then leave the lead at him in the beginning. You can make eye contact and smile at him, but leave it Up to him to "invite you up". This also applies to dating sites. You can show your interest by, for example, going in and looking at his profile several times. But let him write the first message to you. Let him call you or send the first SMS. Let it be the first few months until the relationship has become more established Let him suggest what to do. You can plant small seeds, for example by saying: "Where/in which location is it cozy and easier when we meet face-to-face!",”Ahhh, I love watching movies in the cinema!" etc. As men at the instinctive level (caveman) are the hunters, you give him the opportunity to feel masculine when you give room and time for him to take the initiatives! Receive his gifts / Be receptive and happy. Susceptibility is one of the most important characteristics to develop if you as a woman want a really good love life and sex life. It's one of the greatest gifts the feminine can offer the masculine! Because receiving the man's gifts (compliments, solutions, actions, sex, things, etc.) with joy and grace, creates a flow between you. The energy and joy can dance and grow between you. It is the feminine and the masculine who enrich each other. Susceptibility This can be one of the most difficult things for modern women. We are so accustomed to wanting, being able to and ro handle everything by ourselves and preferably better than our brothers, male study friends and colleagues. On the other hand, men are gradually becoming accustomed to the fact that women can manage on their own, so that they stop giving. Giving is the masculine part of the love dance. If men are not repeatedly received with joy when they give, at some point they stop giving Joy is what a man instinctively will seek to induce with his woman. If you love his presence, he will most likely feel like a success. Conversely, if you are sad or tired, he will easily feel like a failure. And thereby he will more easily lose both his masculine energy and the interest in you. However, you should not pretend and play games, it will not benefit anyone in the long run. But find the ease and joy in you. As a man: Take control without overturning her. Find your manhood. Take the initiatives! Are you afraid she says no? If she does, it doesn't have to do anything with you. It may be that she must first be allowed to say no (salesmen knows that most people should be allowed to say no, sometimes many times - before they actually say yes with joy one day). So keep taking the initiative, as long as you have the energy - as much as yoy like to do it! If necessary, propose things in different ways. It is a balance, because you must not overthrow her with your initiatives. Notice her reactions and the green light signals she gives you. It can be a smile, her voice that sounds more happy or her body language. Over texting message or the web, it may be how fast she answers your messages - and how much she answers you. When you have a good contact / you know each other more, then you can always check by asking her directly. But: Never be Mr. Nice Guy, begging her or just jumping and jumping for her - a wobbly puppy! If she wants one, she buys one in a kennel. It's not one she wants to go to bed with! Show her that she can trust you! jebkinnisonforum.com/thread/1376/work-femininity-masculinity |
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Post by anne12 on Apr 21, 2019 9:50:44 GMT
Coming into secure attatchment exersice: (all attatchment styles)
• Think of a person whom you may or could have counted on. One, as you have or have had a positive relationship with. It may be in less time. Or just the person at the counter in the supermarket, who smiled kindly to you. If you can not think of any person, then Think of an animal ... or maybe nature or something spiritual
• Feel the love, the warmth, the support, the care, the presence, the friendliness or whatever is positive in this regard
• Notice what mood it gives you
• Notice in your body what feelings it gives in the body. Typical sensations are: Warmth, calm, weight, relaxation, ease, space, joy, the trimblings, champagne bubbles ect. But there may also be excitement, fear, lack, longing, sadness, sorrow or even anger. Give it permission and accept these feelings / sensations and give them love / warmth / care if you can
• Repeat this activity several times a day
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Post by anne12 on Apr 21, 2019 9:54:06 GMT
Meeting your future partner/love journey :
This fantasy journey can help you to attract your future partner. You can also use the exercise, if you already have a partner, whom you would like to stay with. IT Works on the subconcioues level (use 25 min.)
Love journey:
Sit down on a chair, close your eyes, breathe in and out 3 times with sound. Feel how the chair carries your weight, feel your sitting bones, legs and feet. Notice that the body breathes completely by itself, without analyzing it.
If you notise anything other than your breathing, get your attention back to your breathing.
Now imagine you are in your room from your childhood home.
If you have had several childhood rooms, choose what's coming up first.
Look around in your room. How's that, how does it look like, notice what mood there is in you.
Suddenly you notice a secret door, you have not seen before. You go and open the door, and you see a long staircase. You start to go down the stairs.
On your way down, you will meet your helper. A person, an animal ect. This is your helper, who Will follow you down the staircase.
At one point when you reach the end of the stairs, there is a large cave.
In the cave there is a large lake. There is a bridge in the lake. You and your helper goes out on the bridge. At the end of the bridge, there is a small boat moored. You and your helper gets up in the boat and your helper helps release the mooring. The boat floats equally quiet with the flow of the water. At one point the water leads the boat out of the cave and down a river. You and your helper sits and look at the landscape.
Now the boat is running ashore. You and your helper jumps out of the boat. You come to a place, that is really nice to you. You sit or stand up and notice how it feels for you, to choose this exat place. A place that is comfortable for you. Notice how it is (felt sensations).
You now have to make a decision.
You have to decide whether you want a feminine or a masculine partner.
If you want a masculine partner, then you have to stay where you are. Then you send your helper out to find your future partner.
If you want a feminine partner, go with your helper, to find your future partner.
Remember when you meet your partner, don't focus on how your partner looks but focus on what mood and the sensations there is within you.
If you already have a partner, feel free to meet her or him.
If you haven't met your partner after a while, then ask your helper to help speed up the process.
Now be with your future partner. Notice what mood you are in and what sensations there are in the body.
If there is anything you need to know from your partner, then you can ask him / her now. Or if you need to say something to your partner, then you can say it now. It may be, that your partner has something she or he would like to tell you or ask you about.
After a while, you must say goodbye for now. You put you and your future partner in a pink bubble, while you are standing in the ground Looking at the bubble rice Up in the air so that IT can manifest itself.
Remember that you can meet your partner anytime and anywhere in the future.
Thank your partner for this time and then go back with your helper to the boat.
Get up in the boat and slide it off the shore. The boat is now taken back up the river and into the cave and to the boat bridge. Remember to dock the boat again. So that the boat is there for another time in the future.
Then you have to say goodbye to your helper and thank your helper for helping you.
You walk back up the stairs, up to the door of your childhood room. Look around in the room and feel the atmosphere and sensations inside you.
Then slowly get your attention back to the precent - the room you are in. To the here and now.
Make a gentle transition into the present moment
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Post by anne12 on Apr 22, 2019 9:24:49 GMT
The 3 most common traps if you want a long lasting partner!
1) You are frantic / needy
2) You are rejecting: All the delicious are already taken or you fall for the wrong ones
3) You have sex at the first meeting
1) You are frantic / needy
If you have to be panicked that you just can't succeed in getting that partner into your life. Yes you can have what you call Ambivalent / nervous or maybe disorganized form of attachment
a. Unfortunately, the more you struggle to get a partner, the further away he / she is. Try to accept the condition of things the best you can. From here you can do the things that can get your partner into your life
Put the panic on the shelf at home, it exaggerates any deodorant: Desperate women scare away even hungry men. The same goes for desperate men, they make women flee. You probably know it yourself when you meet someone who is desperate!
c. Work to get your focus and your energy home to yourself.
d. Get feedback from friends about how you work when you are out
e. Ask yourself what you think when a man / woman is in the waters. If you immediately hear wedding bells, it may be why he / she slips
f. If you are so desperate for a partner, that you are planning a silver wedding, as soon as a man / woman looks kindly at you or says hello. Then you can be sure to scare away any potential Partner before you reach out to exchange phone numbers
A tip for landing panic in the situation:
Breathe deeply into the stomach and breathe out 3 times
Focus on your breathing with at least 50% of your attention
In some cases, it can enhance your panic. So do this instead: Feel your seat knots, legs and feet
If it is difficult to feel these, move your toes while you are aware of them
If this is not enough, move your foot
If this is not enough, relax and relax your muscles in the legs until you can feel them clearly.
2) You are dismissive
As long as you say no to anyone trying to do something with you - yes, you are actually guaranteed not to have a partner. This is typically what you call the dismissive form of attachment
a. Do you think all the delicious men / women are already taken?
b. Are you just so tired of always falling for the wrong one.
Look at your beliefs about a partner- are they completely square and impossible to change?
d. The fixed performances are often a defense. Every time you meet someone, there is just one thing or the other wrong with him / her. So even though he may be the dream prince, or she is the dream princess - you drop him / her before you get to know him / her
e. If there are never any men / women who can live up to your beliefs about a partner, you set unrealistic goals
f. Then you may well have to learn to let go of control
g. Try to have more confidence that what is right in front of your nose is good enough and that you might have a closer look at it.
h. Whenever you say, "Don't work, next," ask yourself, what does it mean? Is it really wrong or is it because I dare not to involve myself or dare not to be open to the opportunities that are right now and here?
A tip to be more courageous / curious about the situation:
1. Notice your first impulse (to reject)
2. Where does IT Sit in the body?
3. What does that part of you need? (typically escaping or pushing away - these are instinctive reactions). Give it something from your adult self. For example, say to yourself: "It's ok with the contact right now - I trust myself!"
4. Also use either the respiratory attention or the "leg exercise".
5. Examine what happens inside you if you keep in touch with the other a little longer. It can be in the present - and in everyday life
You have sex at the first meeting:
You have probably heard This before as a woman:
Don't have sex the first time you meet!
Especially if you are a woman. There are many who fall for the temptation and follow the lusts. Not that there is something wrong with this. It's just something else than building up the energy and the attraction, where the interest in each other as people can develop.
When we love, oxytocin is released. It is also called the love or attachment hormone. It makes us associate with the other. The effect is enhanced by estrogen (one of the female sex hormones) and is reduced by testesterone (the masculine sex hormone). This means that oxytocin is the strongest in women. Typically for 2-3 weeks in women and at most 2-3 days in men.
It also means that women often become more vulnerable to whether the man is also showing his / her attantion or not.
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Post by anne12 on Apr 22, 2019 9:52:02 GMT
What you wear might be more important than you think.
No matter if you are a woman or a man.
As a woman put on a dress that makes you feel feminine and beautifull. Put makeup on and do your hair and maybe your nails. Go to work like this or if not work to the mall ect.
Feel how it changes your mood, your energy, your posture
If you are a man you can put on some fancy elegant shoes, put on a good aftershave, maybe a blazer ect. Go to work or out in town like that.
If you are a woman you can also put on your favorite feminine, delicate underwear and bra on.
Just do it even if it is after work and enjoy and see what happens inside you and around you!
This exercise can make you Think higher of yourself. When we feel good about ouerselfs, we will be happier and and we seem more attractive to other people.
It can also make you socialize more - maybe also with the opposite sex.
An experience from a woman:
I went to work in my beautifull favorite dress, with my hair done and with makeup on. And wow.... it was magic. People were smiling at me, the men at work hold the door for me and said "God morning" more often than they normaly do.
The magic is about that when we chance our own feeling inside, when we allow ourself to shine and to feel good, then our surroundings will mirror this back to us. Everything starts with you!
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Post by anne12 on Apr 22, 2019 9:53:22 GMT
Write a love letter to yourself like if you were your own girlfriend or boyfriend. It has to be handwritten. Imagine that you were the lucky one who had your eyes on you and had fallen in love with you. Write down what you would had fallen for, what you feel being together with you, (that you make you laugh, that you have a big heart, that you are wonderful making love to ect.) You are allowed to think how you would like to be seen as by a future partner. What would you just love that the person was able to see in you ? Maybe some of the things that you are not that fond/proud of in yourself and that you have a problem to love yourself? It can be very healing to write this down. To write it and also to receive it. You can post it for real and send it by mail to yourself. When you will receive the letter make yourself a nice cup of tea or coffee, open the letter and read it slowly. Loud. Feel what happens in your body. All feelings are healing. Also mourning/sorrow. Try if you can take in the meaning of the letter. This is a fantastic training to be able to receive love. This is so important in love life. Sometimes we just have to receive and not do so much in love life. Say thank you! And know that you deserve to be loved. _________________ Marissa Peer s suggestions being your own and or another persons valentine: Valentines Day is approaching and if you are single, you can still feel loved on this day and every day. To feel loved, you do not need a significant other in your life. If you want to attract love into your life then you need to learn how to create love first. m.youtube.com/watch?v=wpzC4E0fURk |
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Post by anne12 on Apr 22, 2019 9:54:50 GMT
Now write a letter to your future boyfriend/girlfriend:
Dear future boyfriend/girlfriend!
If you were in my life, then I would love that we started the day with .......
Afterwards I have arranged that we are going to .......
Just the thought of it makes me ........(happy, warm inside, feeling butterflies ect)
I am looking forward to ..... ( meeting you, hold your hand, wake up with you by my side every morning, travel around the world together with you ect)
With love
Your future boyfriend/girlfriend
Xxxxx (your name)
You can write more than one letter if you want to.
This exercise will show you, how prepared you are to meet a new partner. Maybe you will feel sorrow - if that's the case, you have to look at that first and then do the exercise.
It also helps you to attract a new partner into your life. It is like you are reaching out for him/her.
This exercise gives you permission to feel what you are longing for to do with a partner and it helps you to feel how it would be like to be with your future partner.
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Post by anne12 on Apr 22, 2019 9:56:24 GMT
Both men and women love to feel specially selected and to be listened to.
Whether you are a man or a woman, you can come a long way in asking some interested, empathetic questions. The questions that make the other person talk about something positive, lift the mood between you.
In fact, one study has shown that 36 selected questions could make 2 strangers fall in love with each other during such a talk.
What do men like to do on a Valentine's Day or on every other dates ?
In general, men like experiences, adventures and doing something together. It could be a walk, bike sightseeing, climbing, skating or even training together in the gym.
He also really likes that the woman has made herself naturally beautiful and dressed feminine. Yes, many love that she is sexy dressed in the elegant way - for his sake.
Men also love to feel interesting and be admired for their actions, achievements, humor, etc. But not for their appearance.
He also likes the woman to have made his favorite dish - if they know each other.
What would women like to do on a (Valentine's) date?
Generally speaking, women love romance, as in flowers, candles and lovely scents - long deep talk and look each other in the eyes and hold hands, preferably in a delicious restaurant (so there is something to tell her friends about).
He maybe have found a little romantic gift, that shows that he has thought of her (if they know each other) - and not just a "last-minute panic gift". It doesn't have to have costed a Lot of money.
In general, women love surprises that shows, that he has thought of her and that she is something special to him.
Some women, however, become unsure of surprises.
If the date is to be absolutely stunning in the woman's eyes, after dinner, he can take her to the spa with champagne, strawberries dipped in chocolate and rose petals sprinkled over the place. And with subdued relaxation music. Possibly. starting with a massage (by a masseur).
However, if it's the first date, some women will back out because it's too close too fast.
For most women, this is not the price, but the idea behind the event that counts. That he has thought about what she likes and what makes her feel specially selected by him.
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Post by anne12 on May 12, 2019 11:47:50 GMT
Use the exercise to cultivate the mood and feelings that you dream of are between the two of you!
Make a vision that will make you (almost) experience, the relationship that you dream of RIGHT NOW. This vision can contribute significantly to attracting a lover, the only one in your life! It will open you to love so you can be in the right place at the right time and do what it takes.
Immediately drop the list of how your partner should be!
Even if you get a partner with exactly the traits and qualities that are on your list, there will always be something that you have not thought of.
Because at the conscious level you can't get all the facets.
How to make your love vision:
Describe your vision as concrete and vivid as possible. Describe the vision so that you feel it, feel your enthusiasm and joy over the things that are in it
Describe it in present and positive formulations. What you want to get. Or already have and would like to keep on having
Describe the feelings, sensations, moods and experiences that you would like to have in love life, these are the ones that open you to love and get it attracted!
There are several love visions:
1) The love for yourself: How do you treat yourself, how do you show yourself love, what do you do to feel safe in your everyday life, do you fail yourself? Make loving steps towards yourself, take a small step every day. Make a self-love diary. Write 3-5 points each night about what you might have thought, said, done to pamper yourself. Read your vision from time to time.
2) Dating process vision. How does dating feels for you? Many are uncertain during this period. Write what moods, sensations, feelings that are in you. Recall these feelings when you date. "I feel comfortable in myself, we communicate daily, we see eachother a couple times a week. When I am with my date we are both interested in making it comfortable for each other, I feel calm in the body, I am curious and open."
3) Long term lovevision:
Livingsituation, kids, Work, families, friends ect.
Merge your values into the vision
Describe what and how it is in your relationship
Your way of being together
Communication
Activities and your sex life
Alone time
Other relationships - family, friends, children
Economy
Housing -form-seperate, together, apartment, house, in the city, country 🏠 ect
Possibly cohabitation
Free time, travel,e vacations ect.
Other things
Read your vision at least every day - especially you need to focus on the emotions and moods. There may be a need - very easy even. Allow it to be there too.
How does a typical lovevision look like:
Love vision:
The secure:
harmonious, passionate, warm, cordial, loving, spacious, balanced.
The ambivalent:
long, romantic, "we do / we feel / you are / you do". There can be a lot of passion.
The dismissive:
Short, objective descriptions, without dicribtions of many moods, sensations and feelings, because the dismissive have closed off from their body.
The disorganized:
Messy, with contradictory things, confusing to read.
Love vision:
Ambivalent:
If you've got some ambivalent attatchmentstyle IT is important to put elements in the vision that gives a calm nerveussystem. That IT is clear, that you are together with the right person. When visualising the dating phase, that you are calm inside and that you are able to live your daily life ect. and that you are able to stay calm even if your future partner texts with 2 Days in between.
Desorganised:
If you have some desorganised attatchmentstyle that things between you evolves in a calm and slow way with no drama, that boundaries are respected, that you and your partner feels egual ect
Avoidant:
If you've got some dismissive attatchmentstyle it is important to describe your lovevision with your feelings, needs ect. You can ask some of your friends to get inspired.
You can make a collage with pictures from magasines of things and experiences you want in your relationship.
jebkinnisonforum.com/post/25040/
Love activity:
Create your relationship now!
Turn off your phone ect. for ½ hour, where you are undisturbed for this activity
Find a paper and a pen - or your PC
Sit back and breathe deeply 3 times. Breathe slowly out every time!
Imagine that you have now met and are with the only one in your life. That you have the relationship exactly as you long to have (also allow any need / grief over he / she is not there yet)
Write down:
How would your life be different from what it is right now?
What would it give you to have this relationship?
What feelings / mood?
What else in your life right now, could give you that mood?
If it is security, what could give you an experience of security right now? If it is cohesion, what could give you an experience of cohesion? If it is adventure, joy, sexual gratification, having a partner, doing things with, relief, lightness, meaningfulness, feeling good enough, hoping for children, etc. - what could just give you a similar feeling even though it may be a weaker feeling?
Start today doing the things that can give you the feelings and moods!
Keep doing the things the next few days and weeks - and notice the mood it gives you
Negative emotions and discomfort may appear. These are typically signs of lack. Stay with this as best you can or wait to do this activity until you are more in balance. It can also be other old things that pops up. It is a good idea to clean up in these things, if you want to attract the partner You want. It is not, that you have to be completely whole and perfect - it happens to very few - but that you reconcile yourself to those things and land them.
Acceptance is the first step. Accept the moods and feelings that are now. Sometimes, especially if you have shock trauma energy in stock, then it may require more landing than acceptance
With this activity you build your skills up to attract your future partner.
If you want to have a partner, who wants to spend a Lot of time with you, show yourself that you are Worth spending time with. Spend. quality time with yourself 30 min a Day.
Love vision:
If you have some ambivalent attatchmentstyle IT is important to put elements in the vision that gives a calm nerveussystem. That IT is clear that you are together with the right person. When visualising the dating fase that you are calm inside and that you are able to live your daily life ect. and that you are able to stay calm even if your future partner texts with 2 Days in between.
If you have some desorganised attatchmentstyle that things between you evolves in calm and slow way with No drama, that boundaries are respected, that you and your partner feels egual ect
If you have some dismissive attatchmentstyle IT is important to describe your lovevision with your feelings, needs ect. You can ask some of your friends to Get inspired.
How does a typical lovevision look like:
Love vision:
The secure:
harmonious, passionate, warm, cordial, loving, spacious, balanced.
The ambivalent:
long, romantic, "we do / we feel /
you are / you do". There can be a lot of passion.
The dismossive:
Short, objective descriptions, without dicribtions of many moods, sensations and feelings, because the dismissive have closed of from their body.
The disorganized:
Messy, with contradictory things, confusing to read.
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Post by anne12 on Jun 9, 2019 10:16:35 GMT
How does a typical lovevision look like:
Love vision:
The secure:
harmonious, passionate, warm, cordial, loving, spacious, balanced.
The ambivalent:
long, romantic, "we do / we feel /
you are / you do". There can be a lot of passion.
The dismossive:
Short, objective descriptions, without dicribtions of many moods, sensations and feelings, because the dismissive have closed of from their body.
The disorganized:
Messy, with contradictory things, confusing to read.
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Post by anne12 on Nov 18, 2019 21:59:14 GMT
Manifesting We are all always manifesting and attracting to us the things we believe. In this video, I explain the 4 major blocks to your manifesting power and how to overcome them: youtu.be/wm8pQaQrD7A |
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Post by alexandra on Nov 18, 2019 21:59:58 GMT
Man-ifesting?  |
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Post by anne12 on Jul 22, 2020 17:09:20 GMT
Through this meditation, connect with your soulmate and send a message. Call them to enter your life, using methods from the Law of Attraction. Bring love into your life and attract a partner. -- Best with headphones. m.youtube.com/watch?v=LpedeAl8vHM&t=82s |
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Post by anne12 on Jan 21, 2022 1:40:20 GMT
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