Post by introvert on Jul 18, 2022 0:18:04 GMT
I'm reading that my input isn't helpful so I offered to remove my posts just so you have less clutter and tangent in your thread as you work through it.
I didn't see anything that you wrote that indicated you knew you should ask him about something, but were having a hard time doing so. I just must have missed that.
I also didn't pick up that you realize more communication is needed because of your stated tendency to rely on your intuition, in general you've expressed that in a couple situations here in the forum. You expressed that in the other thread, relying on a hunch instead of initiating a conversation because you were concerned about the outcome.
At any rate, the topics you've been bringing up go perfectly with a talk I've been listening to about transforming our mind and perceptions, so I chimed in with my input. I don't think it's what you need, so I'll pass on sharing further thoughts. I'm not anxious so I don't get you, basically. I'm trying but falling flat.
Sorry for the misunderstanding, and best of luck!
Introvert, from my perspective I don't think your posts are unhelpful. The back and forth has allowed seeking to expand and clarify where she is getting stuck in her interactions. But I can see how from your perspective you may feel you are getting it more wrong than right?
Haha yes, that's right...
she's doesn't know if she's just supposed to agree with me? What does that mean, why would I expect that? What kind of person expects that? There's a sense of her seeing me being somehow entitled, in my mind, to her agreement or I won't play.... nope, that's not it. 👀
The cookie illustration outlined clearly how unhelpful my posts are and I don't mind withdrawing them. Not at all! It could be a waste of my time as well.
While I've seen no indication that she intends to communicate further, I somehow missed it if it's there, my suggestion that she communicate further is met with the above statements and not only is it seeming unhelpful, it's kind of strange to be put in the position of giving thoughtful contribution and then to be met with those kinds of statements. Of course I'm fine with disagreeing on anything- but why go through the bother, for either one of us?
I truly don't think my posts are helpful, based on the responses and I really don't mind bowing out. 🙂