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Post by alexandra on Aug 18, 2021 19:02:31 GMT
Took a long time to realize it, but I eventually concluded primal panic was simply being overwhelmed (because it felt like how our western society describes passion). Which didn't indicate love or not... just getting overwhelmed.
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Post by kekko on Aug 29, 2021 20:32:01 GMT
Decided to delete all of my attachment object related posts as they just showed how immature I am. From here on I will only focus on myself.
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Post by mrob on Aug 29, 2021 20:36:30 GMT
If you delete everything, nobody else can learn.
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Post by tnr9 on Aug 29, 2021 22:49:07 GMT
Decided to delete all of my attachment object related posts as they just showed how immature I am. From here on I will only focus on myself. I have kept all my posts so people can read my journey. |
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Post by annieb on Aug 29, 2021 23:32:21 GMT
Oh, no! These would have been great for you to read two years from now.
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Post by kekko on Sept 1, 2021 8:05:13 GMT
I guess overall it is not beneficial (or appropiate) for anyone to dig into this hole of "analyzing" someone else as much as I did. It is obsessively obscuring the real root issues, insecurities etc. these people have with themselves (including myself) that lead them to these kind of people in the first place.
This is my reasoning for deleting everything. I also found it quite shameful to share so much of myself and my attachment object.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 1, 2021 12:39:19 GMT
I guess overall it is not beneficial (or appropiate) for anyone to dig into this hole of "analyzing" someone else as much as I did. It is obsessively obscuring the real root issues, insecurities etc. these people have with themselves (including myself) that lead them to these kind of people in the first place. This is my reasoning for deleting everything. I also found it quite shameful to share so much of myself and my attachment object. I support your decision- they are your personal posts even if they are on the net , and you can do what makes you comfortable. I deleted my posts that contained personal vulnerability because they are mine when I was done processing whatever it was, I took it with me. You don't have to participate for everyone else, you can do what feels right inside of yourself and participate for YOU. Maybe that's a step in the right direction. People can learn by coming here doing their own writing, do their own process. You don't have to share your guts for them if you don't want to. |
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Post by annieb on Sept 2, 2021 16:32:48 GMT
kekko How have you been? What made you think you re-think some of the stuff you wrote here? How was your therapy, and are you going to continue with the therapist?
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