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Post by tnr9 on Dec 23, 2017 20:38:09 GMT
That's wonderful Stavs!! It sounds like she's making an effort and meeting mother's is always a big deal so it's great that she's willing. I hope it all goes really well!! My two most important women bashing me all night - should be fun!! 😂 I hope it all goes well.  |
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Post by stavs on Dec 23, 2017 20:48:29 GMT
Thank you. It went very well I think. They got along and there were plenty of embarrasing stories brought out about me. LOL.
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Post by yasmin on Dec 23, 2017 22:46:32 GMT
That's really great news. Remember she might pull away briefly now because the mother thing is a big deal!
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Post by stavs on Dec 23, 2017 23:17:29 GMT
That's really great news. Remember she might pull away briefly now because the mother thing is a big deal! Well yesterday I told her I started goign to therapy. She started asking me what was wrong and why and I started telling her. This was over text after I got home from being with her. I wanted to tell her over the phone or in person, but it didnt work out that way. She didnt say much last night when I told her as she was tired but tried to be supportive, but with very few words. At one point she apologized if she just stopped responding. At that point I bid her good night as I know she was truly tired and there was no point in continuing. This morning she apologized for cutting me off because she was tired and I said it was fine. We didn't talk much about it after. A few hours later I got a good morning text and was able to cajole a "date" for tomorrow night to just sit around, drink and talk. Its been about a month since we've been intimate, so I am obviously hoping that happens as that is when she opens up and becomes vulnerable to me. I really hope we can get past all this and have a somewhat normal relationship where both of us feel loved the majority of the time. Its hard with her being a retail manager and the hours that she works, along with all her self proclaimed "deep rooted" issues. I want her to open up to me more so I know what I am dealing with and just be able to support her the best I can. It's very hard for me to just suck everything up, and I keep going back to the old saying of "expect what you accept." |
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Post by damascena on Dec 25, 2017 21:14:56 GMT
That's really great news. Remember she might pull away briefly now because the mother thing is a big deal! Well yesterday I told her I started goign to therapy. She started asking me what was wrong and why and I started telling her. This was over text after I got home from being with her. I wanted to tell her over the phone or in person, but it didnt work out that way. She didnt say much last night when I told her as she was tired but tried to be supportive, but with very few words. At one point she apologized if she just stopped responding. At that point I bid her good night as I know she was truly tired and there was no point in continuing. This morning she apologized for cutting me off because she was tired and I said it was fine. We didn't talk much about it after. A few hours later I got a good morning text and was able to cajole a "date" for tomorrow night to just sit around, drink and talk. Its been about a month since we've been intimate, so I am obviously hoping that happens as that is when she opens up and becomes vulnerable to me. I really hope we can get past all this and have a somewhat normal relationship where both of us feel loved the majority of the time. Its hard with her being a retail manager and the hours that she works, along with all her self proclaimed "deep rooted" issues. I want her to open up to me more so I know what I am dealing with and just be able to support her the best I can. It's very hard for me to just suck everything up, and I keep going back to the old saying of "expect what you accept." How come you two haven't been intimate for so long? |
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Post by stavs on Dec 25, 2017 21:42:46 GMT
Well yesterday I told her I started goign to therapy. She started asking me what was wrong and why and I started telling her. This was over text after I got home from being with her. I wanted to tell her over the phone or in person, but it didnt work out that way. She didnt say much last night when I told her as she was tired but tried to be supportive, but with very few words. At one point she apologized if she just stopped responding. At that point I bid her good night as I know she was truly tired and there was no point in continuing. This morning she apologized for cutting me off because she was tired and I said it was fine. We didn't talk much about it after. A few hours later I got a good morning text and was able to cajole a "date" for tomorrow night to just sit around, drink and talk. Its been about a month since we've been intimate, so I am obviously hoping that happens as that is when she opens up and becomes vulnerable to me. I really hope we can get past all this and have a somewhat normal relationship where both of us feel loved the majority of the time. Its hard with her being a retail manager and the hours that she works, along with all her self proclaimed "deep rooted" issues. I want her to open up to me more so I know what I am dealing with and just be able to support her the best I can. It's very hard for me to just suck everything up, and I keep going back to the old saying of "expect what you accept." How come you two haven't been intimate for so long? Well we dont see each ohter as much as I'd like because of her work schedule. She's been working 6-7 day weeks, and she often closes so gets home late. When we do see each other she is usually tired from opening (gets into work at 5am), plus she doesn't sleep much. She does have a lot of issues, PTSD being one of them from a former career. I don't know all of her issues as she is tight lipped lately and just completely stressed out. Due to this stress and being overwhlemed with work, she really just is not in the mood sadly  |
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